Ahhhh love, the one force in the universe that can make us all feel so utterly amazing and make the birds chirp, the mountains sing and according to Disney live happily ever after
(A Statement only as ridiculous as that goddamn haircut, "I've always hated your waffles")
So what makes love these days?
Really no one seems to know what the fucks going on really. People who have no love life seem to have the perfect plan if they were in a relationship and (most) people in a relationship have been planning the perfect plan to get out of their relationship all together. Now dont get me wrong you can say thats not true or maybe just my opinion but really what makes a real relationship? Most of your parents/grandparents/ or 16 pregnant daughters are in "relationshits" simply because its just a convenience and or just settled for what they could get.
(Thats not funny, and neither are you Dane Cook)
Think about it most of the time how many do you know that have a relationship that are only in it for the sex and or comfort. Maybe they just have grown attached and like a habit have to have them around even though that the sight of that someone makes you feel like making an anniversary dinner look like the Rodney King beating. But once again why do we do it? what drives us to say, "fuck the ship steve! if im going down that bitch is going down with me". I believe personally that people have forgotten how to look at the simple fact there are two sides of the tracks if your just going to simplify it as easy as possible.
Though some cultures have arranged marriages or do what seems right to the fact of doing something to just not end up like the crazy cat lady , people put themselves in situations where they dont want to be.
(yea shes even better than Dane Cook)
Personally I was raised in a family that probably took the note of my conception as well as europe took to the black plague. It probably was more of a " awwwwwwwwww shit, well.............there goes my plans for the 18years what are you doing?".
There was no love in the relationship it was more or less a business agreement due to the fact of having a child. Now most people and children see this today because divorce is so common and non taboo that when younger people are having relationships it usually involves: talking, texting/facebooking, intercourse, awkward texting, intercourse, hanging out, intercourse,intercourse, intercourse through facebook, intercourse through texting and maaaaaaybe a quick visit to confession to even out all that jazz. Now compared to couples back in the 20's, 30's and 40's were most people saw like a bra strap as being "naughty" there was a chance to develop for the most part a real thing of partnership and if if you were married you either 1) stuck it out and worked on it or 2) Visited your best friend in the world
(This smells like grandpa when grandma starts complaining)
But now a day everyone has lost their sense of being in it with your best friend/Person youd always admire good and bad
So what does that mean for us now?
(to be continued)
